A testicle the size of an orange. Valentine’s Day and ten imaginary carving knives. A colostomy bag and the savings on toilet paper. Chemotherapy, falling teeth, and three years of covering your mouth when you laugh. Cancer, diverticulitis and dentures — an unlikely trio, and an entirely true story.
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My Work Life in Melbourne
Four employers in sixty years. Two radio stations, two scandals, one pattern. A phone call that started twenty-two years of Q Magazine. A website partnership that ended badly and cost more than money. A struggle that is current, real, and openly acknowledged. The work life of a man who kept showing up anyway.
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A small town. An inherited path. A marriage that was real and a deception that was also real. Sisters, a best friend, a luncheon club that disappeared overnight, and a move that became inevitable. Coming out changed everything — some for the better, some for the worse. All of it, finally, honest.
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Once a month for over a decade, a karaoke host flew to a bauxite mining town on the edge of Arnhem Land. Two extraordinary friends. A boat trip to a cove ringed with mansions. A marriage ended, a coming out began. And one evening — a very quiet, very final reminder that Nhulunbuy played by more than one set of rules.
Please Continue ReadingThe Land of the Rising Sun — Unfinished Business
Tokyo’s pollution. A mirror-lined basement club. An ancient gate in the middle of Osaka traffic. A Yakuza warning in a dark alley. The saddest museum in the world. And a host brother whose position on vending machine publications was more complicated than he let on. Japan, unfinished — and unforgettable.
Please Continue ReadingThe Land of the Rising Sun
Two visits. Two completely different Japans. A seventeen-year-old boy hosted by extraordinary wealth in Nara and tradition in Kyoto. A twenty-five-year-old president riding the bullet train first class, courtesy of a host best left nameless. The country that gave Brett Hayhoe the travel bug — and never quite gave it back.
Please Continue ReadingProvincetown for Bear Week
A road trip to the tip of Cape Cod. A town that does Bear Week like nowhere else on earth. Seafood that warranted the drive. A karaoke bar that discovered something about its newest patron. And a cold so bitterly personal it left a flu as a souvenir. Worth every degree of it.
Please Continue ReadingSurviving Hurricane Sandy
A hurricane that grounded every airline but one. A former airline employee who fixed it in two minutes. A building fifteen floors up, swaying. A flooded Manhattan and a drive through darkness without traffic lights. Hurricane Sandy — the storm that turned a New York visit into something considerably more than a visit.
Please Continue ReadingFrom Paper to Public Art
Falls Creek’s vibrant art scene has evolved with significant additions, including the Flower of the Alpine Sun sculpture, designed by Gio Veronesi. Standing over ten metres tall, it enhances public engagement with the alpine environment. Supported by Community Recovery Funding, local artist murals and the Artist in Residence Program foster cultural enrichment, offering unique visitor experiences.
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A site inspection that became something far more personal. A guest room decorated with Royal portraits by friends who remembered what mattered. Indianapolis drag royalty, Midwestern Republican territory hosting a global Pride conference, and a late-night rescue from a Jackson Heights gutter by a stranger with enormous arms and impeccable timing.
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